Okay if you arent aware of the above stated fact then probably you have been in a coma for the past 10 odd days. Cos i am wedding crazy these days. My BFF is getting married.(again, if you dont know what i mean by BFF...)
its a weird feeling seeing her gearing up to be someone's wife!! WIFE...my gawd,...soon enough shall follow kids... MOTHER!!!
lord...i guess seeing her do all of this makes me wake up and realise that my parents probably wont let me get away with acting 15 all the time and perhaps would even like to get me married off...as ghastly as that sounds...i know marrying off a queen isnt all that easy either- for reference see movie:- princess diaries 2:royal engagement.
ok, so i am blabbering. but yea, i had some of my other classmates getting married as soon as they left the JMC premises for good, on the fateful march 2006 days, but that did not "upset" HRH that much... maybe because its D, my D. my silly D who spent her days acting kiddish...i was the adult in that relationship...so really my BABY is getting married and i am freaked out for very potent reasons:
1. its like your twin getting married...u HAVE to freak
2. no, no...its even worst,...its ur younger sister getting married(altho chronologically D is 8 months older!!)...and you the older career woman suddenly realise the self-created pressure is on.
3.you realise that the "have-u-met-mr.xyz's-son" is not far away...
and lastly and more importantly;
4.you realise that you arent the only important 20-something year old in her life. that you can no longer guilt her by asking if she'd choose over a date with her Boyfriend or her Bestfriend!! that the val-day dates at dilli haat are now a memory. that he has equal if not more of a right. and yea, he will also be a party to all of "OUR" conversations!! bitter sweet realities of life, eh?!!
but then again you dont lose a bestfriend, you gain a beautiful, naughty, flirty age old relationship of "jija-saali"...
and since neither of us have real sisters, this is my only ticket to "jija-land".
so here, i raise my glass to you, D and Ro: my favorite couple in the www!!!
PS. i will only babysit your kids if at least one of them is named after me...and no middle naming or adopting dogs as "a family member" and naming them....HRH doesnt fetch and smell other people!!
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